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Training Tips & Socialization

Practical guidance to help your new puppy get off to the best possible start.

Please Note

We are not professional trainers or veterinarians. The tips on this page are based on our own experience raising and socializing puppies, along with research we have done along the way. Every puppy is different, and what works for one may not work for another. Please do your own research and consult with a qualified trainer or your veterinarian for guidance specific to your puppy.

Important: Puppies Not Yet Fully Vaccinated

Puppies who are not yet fully vaccinated must be kept off the ground at all times when out in public or in areas where other dogs have been. You can carry them, use a stroller or wagon, or — if you visit a pet-friendly store — wipe down a shopping cart and place your puppy inside. This protects them from parvo, distemper, and other serious diseases they can pick up from contaminated surfaces before their immune system is fully protected.

1. Potty Training

Potty training is one of the first skills you'll work on with your new puppy. The key to success is establishing a routine, supervising closely, and rewarding your puppy when they get it right.

Establish a Routine

Take your puppy to their designated potty area immediately after waking up, shortly after meals and drinking, after naps and playtime, before and after crate time, before bedtime, and frequently throughout the day. Young puppies have small bladders and may need a potty break every 30–60 minutes while awake, sometimes more frequently. Adjust the schedule according to your puppy's individual needs and watch for signs that they need to go.

Reward Success

When your puppy uses the correct potty area, immediately offer praise and a small treat. This helps them understand which behavior you want them to repeat. Choose a consistent potty location and consider using a simple cue such as "go potty."

Supervise Indoors

Watch for sniffing, circling, wandering away, or suddenly becoming restless — these may be signs that your puppy needs to go outside. When you cannot supervise, use a safe puppy-proofed area or appropriately introduced crate.

What If Accidents Happen?

Accidents are a normal part of learning! Stay calm and avoid punishment. If you catch your puppy starting to go, gently redirect them to the appropriate area. Clean accidents thoroughly with an enzymatic pet cleaner. Review your routine and offer more frequent potty breaks if needed. Never rub your puppy's nose in an accident or punish them after the fact — this can create fear without teaching them where to go. Potty training takes time. If a previously reliable puppy suddenly has frequent accidents or seems uncomfortable urinating, consult your veterinarian.

2. Crate Training

A crate can become a comfortable resting space, assist with house-training, and help you safely manage your puppy when you cannot supervise them. The goal is to help your puppy view the crate as a safe, positive place — never as punishment.

How to Introduce the Crate

Step 1 — Make it inviting: Place the crate in a comfortable area of your home and secure the door open. Allow your puppy to explore it voluntarily. Step 2 — Introduce rewards: Toss treats inside, offer meals near or inside the crate, and praise your puppy for entering. Step 3 — Add a cue: Once your puppy willingly enters, say "crate" as they go inside and reward them. Step 4 — Practice short periods: Briefly close the door while you remain nearby, then open it again before your puppy becomes distressed. Gradually increase the duration as they become comfortable. Step 5 — Build a routine: Use the crate for appropriate naps and rest after potty breaks, and practice settling at bedtime.

Important Crate-Training Tips

  • Choose a crate that allows your puppy to stand, turn around, stretch out, and lie down comfortably.
  • Remove items that could create chewing, swallowing, or entanglement hazards when unsupervised.
  • Give young puppies frequent bathroom breaks.
  • Never use the crate to punish your puppy.
  • Do not leave a puppy confined for an entire workday without appropriate breaks and care.
  • If your puppy shows persistent panic or tries frantically to escape, make training easier and seek professional advice.
  • Some whining may indicate that your puppy needs to potty, feels uncomfortable, or is struggling with separation. Check their needs rather than automatically leaving them to cry.

3. Safe Socialization

Socialization is the process of helping your puppy become familiar with the world around them in a positive, safe, and age-appropriate way. The first three months of life are a particularly important socialization period. The goal isn't to make your puppy meet everyone — it's to help them feel comfortable experiencing everyday life.

What Should Your Puppy Experience?

  • People of different ages and appearances.
  • Hats, glasses, umbrellas, and different types of clothing.
  • Household appliances, doorbells, and everyday noises.
  • Traffic and other sounds heard from a safe distance.
  • Different safe surfaces, such as grass, carpet, and rubber mats.
  • Car rides and calm trips to appropriate locations.
  • Grooming equipment and gentle handling.
  • Calm, healthy, familiar dogs when appropriate and approved by your veterinarian.
  • Strollers, bicycles, wheelchairs, and other everyday sights.
  • Different rooms and safe environments.

How to Introduce Something New

Begin at a comfortable distance and allow your puppy to observe and explore voluntarily. Offer treats, praise, or play if they are comfortable. Watch their body language and give them the option to move away or take a break. Gradually increase the challenge as they become comfortable. A relaxed puppy may explore willingly, move comfortably, and accept treats. Turning away, hiding, freezing, trembling, repeatedly trying to escape, or refusing normally appealing treats may indicate stress. Never force your puppy to approach something frightening or hold them in place until they "get used to it." Increase the distance and try again more gently another time.

Socialization Before Full Vaccination

You don't necessarily need to wait until every vaccination is complete to begin socialization. Ask your veterinarian about local disease risks and the safest options for your puppy. Depending on your veterinarian's guidance, appropriate experiences may include observing the world from a clean stroller or carrier, meeting people in controlled environments, visiting a clean secure private property, watching traffic or everyday activities from a safe distance, and attending a well-managed puppy class with appropriate vaccination and hygiene requirements. Avoid dog parks, communal dog-relief areas, and direct contact with unfamiliar dogs or their feces until your veterinarian advises that it is safe. Quality matters more than quantity — a few calm, positive experiences are better than overwhelming your puppy with too much at once.

4. Biting, Nipping & Teething

Puppies explore the world with their mouths, and nipping is common during play and teething. Your job is to teach them what they can chew and how to interact gently with people.

How to Handle Puppy Biting

  • Redirect: Offer an appropriate chew toy when your puppy bites hands, clothing, or furniture.
  • Pause play: If biting continues, calmly stop interacting for a brief moment.
  • Reward gentle behavior: Praise your puppy for playing appropriately and chewing their toys.
  • Watch for tiredness: Puppies often become more mouthy when overtired or overstimulated.
  • Provide appropriate chews: Choose puppy-safe items suitable for your dog's size and chewing style.
  • Avoid hitting, yelling, pinning, or grabbing your puppy's muzzle — these approaches can create fear and damage trust.
  • Teach children to interact gently with puppies, supervise all interactions, and give puppies a safe place to rest undisturbed.

5. Basic Obedience Training

You can begin teaching simple skills as soon as your puppy comes home. Keep sessions short, fun, and rewarding.

Sit

Hold a treat near your puppy's nose and slowly move it upward and slightly back. When your puppy naturally sits, say "yes" and reward. Once the movement becomes predictable, introduce the word "sit."

Down

Move a treat from your puppy's nose toward the floor and gradually forward. Reward when your puppy lies down. Once the movement is predictable, add the word "down."

General Tips

  • Keep training sessions short — 3 to 5 minutes is plenty for young puppies.
  • End on a positive note with something your puppy already knows.
  • Use high-value treats for new or challenging skills.
  • Be consistent with your cues and reward timing.
  • Train in a quiet area first, then gradually add distractions.
  • If your puppy seems frustrated or disengaged, take a break and try again later.

6. Building Independence

Helping your puppy feel comfortable spending time alone is one of the kindest things you can do for them. Puppies who are never left alone can develop anxiety when separation becomes unavoidable.

How to Build Independence Gradually

  • Practice short absences from the start — even just stepping out of the room.
  • Give your puppy a safe, comfortable space with a chew or toy when you step away.
  • Return before your puppy becomes distressed, then gradually increase the time.
  • Avoid making departures and arrivals overly dramatic.
  • Practice crate time even when you are home so the crate does not only predict being left alone.
  • If your puppy shows signs of significant distress when left alone, consult your veterinarian or a qualified trainer.

7. Leash Training

Walking nicely on a leash is a learned skill. Begin indoors, where your puppy can practice without too many distractions.

Start With the Harness

Let your puppy sniff the harness and reward them for approaching it. Gradually practice putting it on and fastening it comfortably. Choose a secure, properly fitted harness and check it regularly as your puppy grows.

Practice Indoors

Attach a lightweight leash while supervising closely. Encourage your puppy to walk beside you, reward them for checking in with you, and take a few steps at a time. Never leave a leash attached to an unattended puppy.

Move Outdoors Gradually

Once your puppy is comfortable indoors, practice in a quiet, safe area approved by your veterinarian. Reward loose-leash walking, calm observation, and appropriate sniffing. Keep early sessions short and focus on positive experiences rather than distance.

What If My Puppy Pulls?

When the leash becomes tight, pause and encourage your puppy to return toward you. Reward them when they move with a loose leash. If your puppy bites the leash or becomes frustrated, make the session easier, redirect to a toy, and offer a break if needed.

8. Grooming & Handling

Regular grooming is particularly important for our breeds. Early, positive introductions can help puppies become more comfortable with brushing, bathing, nail care, ear care, and veterinary handling.

Practice Gentle Handling

  • Having their paws and toes touched.
  • Gentle handling of their ears and tail.
  • Brief examination of the face.
  • Looking at the teeth and gums.
  • Brushing and coat care.
  • Nail-trimming equipment.
  • Bathing and dryer sounds.

Brushing

Begin with a few gentle strokes using an appropriate brush. Reward calm participation and gradually increase the duration only when your puppy remains comfortable.

Bathing

Use a nonslip surface, comfortable water temperature, and gentle handling. Avoid getting water or shampoo into the eyes and ears.

Blow-Drying

Introduce the sound at a comfortable distance and gradually increase exposure. Use a pet-safe dryer setting and avoid hot air or direct airflow into the face or ears.

Nail Care

Begin by handling the paws and introducing the equipment. Ask a veterinarian or professional groomer to demonstrate safe trimming if you are unsure.

Ear Care

Handle the outer ears gently and use only appropriate ear-care products. Never insert cotton swabs or other objects deep into the ear canal.

Teeth

Gradually introduce gentle mouth handling, a dog toothbrush, and dog-safe toothpaste. Never use human toothpaste unless your veterinarian specifically confirms it is safe. If your puppy pulls away, freezes, or becomes distressed, stop and make the next session easier. Never force grooming simply to complete the task.

9. Jumping, Barking & Everyday Manners

Puppies need to learn how to behave around people and in a household. Consistency and rewarding desirable behaviors are key.

Everyday Manners

  • Jumping: Reward four paws on the floor or a sit before greeting. Ask visitors to follow the same approach.
  • Barking: Consider why your puppy is barking. They may be excited, frightened, frustrated, or communicating a need. Reward calm behavior and address the underlying cause.
  • Chewing: Keep tempting items out of reach and provide appropriate chew toys.
  • Stealing objects: Practice "drop it," manage access to household items, and reward appropriate choices.
  • Excessive excitement: Reduce stimulation, encourage calm activities, and offer a rest period if your puppy seems overtired.
  • Begging: Teach your puppy to settle on a designated mat or bed while the family eats.
  • Digging: Supervise outdoor activities and, where appropriate, provide an approved digging area.

A Note on Corrections

Avoid harsh corrections and intimidation. Instead, teach your puppy what you would like them to do and reward progress.

10. Enrichment, Play & Rest

Puppies need opportunities to explore, sniff, play, learn, and rest. Mental enrichment can provide useful stimulation while helping them practice problem-solving and everyday skills.

Easy Enrichment Ideas

  • Scatter some of their regular kibble on a clean, safe surface for them to sniff out.
  • Introduce a suitable snuffle mat under supervision.
  • Offer simple food puzzles appropriate for their age and ability.
  • Practice "find the treat" using easy hiding places.
  • Rotate a few safe toys to maintain interest.
  • Teach simple tricks using positive reinforcement.
  • Allow supervised exploration of safe surfaces and objects.
  • Enjoy gentle play with suitable toys.

Remember the Importance of Rest

Young puppies need substantial sleep and quiet time. A puppy who becomes unusually mouthy, restless, or excitable may be tired or overstimulated. Create a routine that balances potty breaks, meals, play, short training sessions, exploration, and rest. Always supervise new activities, particularly when food puzzles or chew toys are involved. Remove damaged items and anything that could be swallowed.

11. Puppy-Proofing Your Home

Before bringing your puppy home, take a moment to look around from their perspective. Puppy-proofing is an ongoing process — as your puppy grows and becomes more adventurous, reassess your home and adjust their environment.

Puppy-Proofing Checklist

  • Secure electrical cords and keep hazardous objects out of reach.
  • Store medicines, cleaning products, and chemicals safely.
  • Remove toxic plants and prevent access to hazardous foods.
  • Secure trash cans and pick up small objects.
  • Use gates or exercise pens to restrict unsafe areas.
  • Check fences and gates for escape routes.
  • Put away shoes, socks, and tempting chew items.
  • Provide appropriate chew toys and a safe resting area.
  • Supervise interactions with children and resident pets.
  • Give your puppy a quiet place to rest undisturbed.